But you're not used to it, so you aren't very good at it. It takes experience to know how best to lead, just like anything else, and you don't have that yet. That's hardly your fault, I'm certainly not judging you for it, but you need to analyze and accept your shortcomings if you're going to overcome them. I'm only trying to help you.

[One thing Twilight's learned quite well by this point is that honesty and rudeness are not the same thing... no matter what some people might claim.]